About Marc Zola LMFT

AAMFT Clinical Fellow

Licensed Clinical Supervisor

22+ years experience

Author · The Intimacy Paradox

aBOUT MARC ZOLA, LMFT

A different kind of therapist.

Direct. Pattern focused.


Marc doesn’t believe in open-ended therapy. With 22+ years of clinical experience, he combines careful listening with direct, pattern-level feedback — telling you exactly what’s keeping you stuck and how to change it.

“My goal is not years of therapy. It’s to give you a clear understanding of your patterns and the tools to change them — as efficiently as possible.”

background

Decades at the leading edge of relational therapy

Marc is an AAMFT Clinical Fellow, an approved Clinical Supervisor, a former psychotherapy instructor, and Founder Emeritus of one of the premier mental health practices in the Pacific Northwest.


These aren’t just credentials. They reflect decades of working at the leading edge of relational therapy, training other clinicians, and refining an approach that produces real, lasting change.

The approach

What makes working with Marc different

He identifies the hidden interaction pattern — not just the surface argument.

He gives direct, clear feedback rather than open-ended reflection.

He works toward an endpoint — equipping you to function independently

He brings the same framework from his book into every session

who marc works with

Three core focus areas

01

Couples in recurring conflict

Breaking the patterns that keep couples stuck in the same fight.

02

Parents navigating disconnection

Getting aligned as a parenting team and leading with confidence.

03

Individuals managing anxiety

Addressing root causes — including how the past shapes the present.

Marc Zola on Breaking Free from The Intimacy Paradox

“Your help these past few months was invaluable. We feel like a whole new couple and are excited for what’s to come. Thank you!”

― Former client testimonial
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Couple Maroon Coat Embrace

“Working with you was a game changer. We finally feel like we can truly hear each other again. Thank you for helping us rebuild our trust.”

― Former client testimonial

“What struck us most was how quickly you identified our pattern — we’d been stuck in it for years without even seeing it. It’s made a huge difference.”

― Former client testimonial
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Marc works with couples caught in recurring conflict — and the issues that often come with it: parenting disconnection, and the anxiety that builds when a relationship feels stuck. If any of that sounds familiar, the first step is a session.

About Marc Zola LMFT’s Education & Experience

University of Pennsylvania, Philadelphia PA (BA Psychology)

University of Oregon, Eugene OR (MEd Couples & Family Therapy)

Volunteers in Medicine, Intern Psychotherapist

Sacred Heart Medical Center, Inpatient Psychiatric Unit Psychotherapist

University of Oregon, Clinical Supervision & Healthy Relationships, Adjunct Instructor

Eugene Therapy & Oregon Counseling, Founder Emeritus

AAMFT Clinical Fellow

Licensed in: Washington State, Oregon, Idaho, Connecticut